Approaching women – 7 Tips and Secrets That Get You Results

Approaching women can be scary especially if you are just starting out. Here are some tips that will improve your relations with women.

1)      Accept where you are now – The most important thing to do is to first accept where you stand in your ability to attract and approach women.

Start small, from saying hello and build it up as your confidence grows.

Don’t try to act like you are super Casanova –despite popular belief women are not necessarily looking for that.

You will only make yourself look stupid and women will distrust you.

This doesn’t mean you should tell the woman that you are a fifty year old virgin. It simply means keep it simple – focus on building a connection and sexual tension with her instead of trying to impress her.

The key here is to relax and just have a normal conversation and then build it up.

2)      Keep it honest – I think the biggest mistake guys make is to pretend they are not really interested in the girl.

The truth is girls already know what you want when you walk up to them.  Even though you may think it is easier to talk to them when you “fly under the radar” that doesn’t get you dates.

In fact the more honest and confident you can be about what you really want, the more successful you will become.

3)      Respect women – Women are people too. Many guys think that women are not smart or that they can be easily tricked or manipulated into sex or relationships.

The truth of the matter is this – if she is not attracted to you there is nothing you can do, as far as I’m concerned.

If she is, your confidence is the best way to amplify that attraction and get closer to her.

Let her know you find her attractive but don’t treat her like she is an object.

Remember:Respect women.

4)      Accept rejection as part of life – There has been a long debate about whether or not it is possible to eliminate rejection completely.

Personally, I don’t see any reason why rejection should be eliminated – I believe it is not only a part of reality , it is necessary.

If someone is truly not interested in you why should you want to waste yours or the person’s time?

You also have to learn to reject women who you feel are not right for you.

Once you learn to focus on the ones you truly want your success rate will increase.

Remember, not every girl will want you. Just move on when you have to.

5)      Get comfortable with yourself – When approaching a woman you want to feel as comfortable and relaxed with yourself as possible.

That is what will get her to relax as well. You will then be able to focus on creating a strong sexual vibe with her.

You can connect best with a woman when you are both relaxed.

This means you must learn to be comfortable with yourself and accept yourself for who you are.

How else do you expect others to accept you?

6)      Refine your skill – It is possible to become better at approaching women and attracting them to you.

It is not the way most people think though. You only become better by learning to feel relaxed around them and being stronger in who you are.

This will naturally make you more attractive and a bigger challenge to women ( which in turn makes them want you more!)

7)      Accept your desires – If you are approaching a woman and don’t feel comfortable about your own feelings for her, how do you expect her to be comfortable with her feelings for you?

When you approach a woman you take a risk. That’s part of being a man.

Some of the risk happens inside of you – that means being honest with yourself about what you truly want.

As I always say, there is no magic pill –if you truly want remarkable results you must make a remarkable change in the way you approach things.

All the best, let me know how it goes. Leave your comments below!