Attract Love – By Being Yourself

If you don’t master the art of being yourself you will never be truly happy with any girl in your life…

Sounds scary doesn’t it? Well maybe at first, until you realise how amazing it is to act as you feel like doing and not as you have been taught or told to act like.
There is a huge misconception we all experience in life towards a common piece of advice. When you ask many people ‘how do I attract the right girl into my life?’ or ‘how do I find true love?‘, most people will tell you just be yourself and you will meet the right girl. What most people don’t realise is that you as a man may not be in the right state of mind to understand this advice.

You can end up even more confused as right now being yourself may not have brought you much success. The simple explanation is that you are not really being your true self when you interact with girls in the first place and so in fact this advice is not wrong, it just need’s more explaining…

Think about it this way, when you see a girl you like do you:

• Approach her when you feel like it?
• Tell her what you really want to tell her or do you tell her what you have been told by society or others to say?
• Act relaxed like when your around friends? If you really like her surely you should be able to relax around her right?
• Put the effort into the conversation and interaction to make it fun or do you expect a rise out of her for muttering a few words under your breath?
• Treat the interaction as a new and potentially exciting experience with the uncertainty providing the spark and not the worry?
• Feel good when you talk to her?
• Smile?
• Laugh?
• Lead the way?

As men we are born to do all these things. Yes we may express these feelings and actions in a variety of ways but the foundation is always the same. To be yourself is to really master these actions and your emotions, when you do, you feel fantastic. Not because you will always get the outcome you expect, but you will be acting on impulse and following your desires, in which case you will be taking proactive action to get what you want.

There is nothing more disheartening or unsatisfying than acting in a false or preprogrammed manner to manipulate others. Doing so will leave you feeling a fraud, with little power or identity and at worse you will attract the wrong girl and end up in a relationship with that just doesn’t fit with you as a person.

You should always be acting exactly as you feel like doing and you should feel good about being yourself. If you follow the pack or follow the ‘BS’ messages projected by society or the media, you will end up in generic relationships with crap girls who don’t suit your personality.

However if you learn to express your true self you will soon learn the feeling of liberation from which you will gain true inner strength.

The amount of phone numbers you get or dates you go on could go up or down, but that is not important when it comes to seeking out a happy and fulfilled relationship with a girl. What you will find is the amount of high quality women that will be attracted into your life will increase, women you can seriously consider starting a lasting and loving relationship with! High quality women are those that suit you and the chemistry between both of you will flow naturally, trust me…

Hopefully you have begun to understand what being yourself is more about, in which case next time someone tells you ‘Just Be Yourself!’ you should now see the real meaning behind such a simple answer.