How to Get a Girlfriend – 7 Hot Tips

So, you want a girlfriend. Great! Here are some tips on how you can get a cool girlfriend. Mind you, some of them might be opposite of what you have heard before.

1) Know what you want in a girl– and why you want it. Simply saying “I want a girlfriend” will not do you much good. Girls like guys who know what they want. If they sense you’d settle for any girl who’d take you, they’ll quickly loose interest.

Women like to feel special and one way to do this is by showing that you’re selective. The best way to do that is by actually having some selection criteria.

2) Go where the girls are – Try different activities everyday. Meet new people and expand your social circle. You are not likely to stumble upon the love of your life in your living room. You have to get out there. Make friends with everyone not just women. Maybe you will get introduced to someone’s sister…

3) It all starts from you – the way you live your life and perceive yourself will have an impact on the kind of woman you will attract. You must learn to value yourself and to love yourself first before expecting the same from others.

4) Get sexual – otherwise you will hear “I think you’re a really nice guy but I think we should just be friends.” Learn how to create sexual tension. Be honest with yourself and see how comfortable you are with your sexuality. Do you suppress it or do you express it? And most importantly you must have the balls to act sexual towards women.

This may take some time to master but it’s key to a successful relationship.

5) Have a goal in life – Men who are truly passionate about something in life are very attractive. Your passion will give you extra energy and vibrancy that will affect everything you do, including your relationship.

6) Don’t make this the centre of your life – contrary to what pop songs and fairy tails tell you, building your life around a relationship is bad for you. The same way, you are better off not focusing all your energy into finding a new girlfriend. You will lose touch with yourself, making it even harder to start a new relationship.

Not to mention that it’s a big turn off for women.

7) Date several girls at once – you don’t have to be sleeping with all of them but at least give yourself some choice. I know our society teaches us this is not a good thing. However, I don’t see anything wrong with making sure we find the right person by choosing, not by just accepting whoever comes first.

There you are. Not all these tips are conventional wisdom but they work. Remember, just lay back and relax. Make sure you live your life the way you want to and you’ll probably meet a special girl when you least expect it. For more info on getting girls, just send me a message or leave a comment.

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