How to Be a Man

I struggled with this question for a long time. I searched for an answer everywhere I could.

I couldn’t find anything that I deemed satisfactory so after a long time I came to my own conclusion.

The first thing that I learnt is that a man has to have character. And he must have integrity. What this basically means is that he needs to have principles and stand by them.

The key to that is honesty. You have to be honest with yourself and the rest of the world.

A man is not easily swayed by external factors. He stands for what he believes.

A man must go for what he wants. He knows nobody is going to hand him happiness on a silver platter. He doesn’t hesitate to do what he has to do – regardless of what other people might think or say.

There are two things I believe men care about the most;

• Women – whether you want one or many we’re all sensitive about this
• Their aim or mission – you may want to build a happy home or become a super-hero but you need some kind of goal in life

Men need these to be fulfilled and to express themselves fully.

And whilst working on fulfilling them you will find answers to how to be a man.

It is really unfortunate that in the modern times manhood has become somewhat a subject of mockery.

Men’s natural tendency to dominate is being met with a lot of anger and misinterpretation. But don’t worry I’m here to help you with that.

Ultimately you will have your own definition. It will come to you after a relentless search for what you truly want in life.