Best Dating Systems?

Dating systems are like training wheels on a bicycle; they show you possibilities but at a point you have to discard them and ride on your own! If you want to become a master, you definitely have to get rid of your wheels.

And you better do it fast!

You develop you own technique with persistence, over time and one day you realize you do what you want without having to thing about it!

The cool thing is…

…that if you are really passionate about it you will enjoy the journey and you’ll be grateful for the experience. You’ll probably not want to substitute it for anything and it will become a fond period of time in your memory.

The best part is that you learn your biggest lessons by making and allowing yourself to make mistakes!

Secondly the systems often suggest a certain outcome after applying a particular technique. When students get a different outcome they think they did something wrong. In real life each interaction will be different so you can always expect something new, either good or bad.

We all know stories of Pick-UP Robots in the seduction community.

You may mistakenly focus on the wrong aspects of dealing with women, thus prolonging your path to success.

Therefore, I believe in sorting out yourself as a man, in a way that allows you not to worry about whether you’re high status or not (in many ways I find that style of thinking pure bullshit), learning how to become confident and secure with yourself and your sexuality.

This is something that comes from inside and manifests itself in your life in various ways, including your actions.

However, none of them have the power to fully transform you. Only you can do that because only you know what you truly want.

Approach Anxiety

One thing I have seen a lot of guys do is to spend huge amounts of time getting rid of approach anxiety.

Your lack of approach anxiety may not necessarily be the best thing for you. It is possible that you suppress your emotions to the extent that you don’t even feel them. So you may actually feel anxiety without being aware of it.

This might mean that you try to stifle or control your emotions during the interaction.

Do you know how this affects your game?

Women can’t communicate with you. Because to them what they feel is what they do. If they only feel your suppressed emotion they will react by closing up or running away.

You see what you say really doesn’t really matter. What matters is the emotion that is carried in your voice and actions. I’m sure by now you realize that two guys can say the same things and get completely different results.

You may want to look at that. Try and see how well you express and accept all your emotions including anger, anxiety, hatred, happiness, joy and what ever else you can find ; )

Your comfort and acceptance of the sexual side of you is also very important. You can expect the woman to feel comfortable with sex if you are not – she looking to you for clues on how things will go.

Besides pick-up…

…how well do you do with women in your social circle, at work etc?
You may want to try Salsa. This is one of the best ways to learn and enjoy interactions with women. I have seen many guys transform completely just by going to Salsa classes regularly.

If baffles me, how guys think they can pick up a girl if they can’t even interact effectively with the ones they meet in everyday life (I’m not saying that’s you , by the way).

Finally, you really need to decide what you REALLY want with women. Then you can focus on getting just that.

Just by the way…

One of the reasons people like me do this, is the adrenaline rush that comes with approaching females. It doesn’t matter if the girls are interested or not; I paid my respects to mankind by going for what I want and that’s what matters. For that reason I don’t even care to deal with approach anxiety.