About “Self-Improvement”

Becoming a better person seems to be a very noble goal. You may notice
however that sometimes “improving yourself” doesn’t necessarily get you
better results with life, business or women.

You start wearing better clothes, you go to the gym. You have learnt
the latest attraction techniques but still… not that much more improvement.

And then you go to the club, party or even at work and you see the guy
who (you think) is not as good as you, who doesn’t seem to see any value in self
improvement but is getting the results you are looking for!

There is a difference between increasing your potential and actually using
it. What is stopping you from fully utilising your potential?

Aha! You just asked the million dollar question.

I believe in something that is much more powerful than striving to
improve yourself. Something that makes your progress in life
exponential, the real magic bullet that allows you to make quantum leaps.

Drum roll… It’s simple. It’s not about improving yourself. It’s about
improving … your perception of yourself.

It is about appreciating what you’ve got and what you
haven’t got. This means not trying to mask your imperfections but
embracing them.

They are still part of you and they don’t make you any less of a person.
Everyone has them.

Yes. It’s that simple. Not necessarily easy to grasp or do but it is simple.
Let’s look at this example. So you want to get laid. How comfortable, can
you honestly say you are with your body and your sexuality?

Do you believe there is a “technique” out there that will camouflage the
fact that you may have some shame about sex?

The poor women you want to have sex with already have to deal with their own
issues about sex and about not being seen as a slut.

If you, the man, are not relaxed about sex, how can she be?
Bottom line: stop looking for what is wrong but start finding what’s right.

Why do you think you need to become a better person? Do you think you
are not good enough?

What exactly does good enough mean? Who is the judge of that?

The right way is to do things that improve your life regardless of whether
it attracts women or not. Doing things that make you feel good about
yourself.

Going to the gym will make you feel better. Putting yourself first will
make you feel better.

And I’m not saying do things that harm or take away from others.
The funny thing is, the more you see yourself in the good light the easier
it will become for you to take action in the right direction.

In effect you will still end up doing stuff similar to “self-improvement”
but this time it be with a different mindset.

You will do only what truly feels right and everything else in your life
will improve as a result.